A few people in the UK have been diagnosed with a rare infection called monkeypox. While the current outbreak is concerning, the risk to the UK population remains low, but a notable proportion of cases have been in gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men. We encourage these groups to look out for unusual rashes or lesions on the body, especially the genitalia, and contact a sexual health service if they have concerns. For more information, please visit nhs.uk.;
Someone consents to sexual activity or contact only if they…
‘Agree by choice . . . and have the freedom and capacity to make that choice.’
The law says it's legal for you to agree – or consent – to sex from the age of 16. There is however, much more to consent than just being of the legal age. Whether it is with an acquaintance, a friend, an ex or with a boyfriend or girlfriend, it is your right to say no to any form of sexual activity or contact at any age and at any time. This is the same no matter your gender or sexual orientation. This forms an essential part of a healthy relationship.
Consenting to one form of sexual activity or contact doesn't mean someone consents to all activity. If a person is dressed in a certain way or is flirting, this is not an automatic invite. Similarly even if consent has been given for sexual activity in the past does not mean consent will automatically be given again.
Someone doesn't actually have to say the word 'no' to show a lack of consent. Body language that can imply 'no' can include being tense, frightened or nervous or not wanting to be touched, kissed or hugged.
Consent has not been freely given if someone feels pressured into it. Being pestered, intimidated or threatened (physically or emotionally) or being called 'frigid' , made to feel stupid/bad or encouraged to drink alcohol or take drugs are all forms of pressure.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Yes, even mid activity!
Consent can never be assumed. The easiest way to make sure consent is given is to ask before sexual activity occurs. If the person freely responds ‘yes’ (without force or pressure), this is consent.